The Cult of Systems: Why Every Man I Know Is Trying to Optimise Himself Into the Ground
A breakdown of how modern men turned self-organisation into an extreme sport, and why every abandoned Notion dashboard might secretly be a cry for help.
I Think I Miss Being Bored
A dry, emotional rant about missing boredom. Childhood silence. Life without distraction. And why your brain now panics if left alone for 60 seconds.
The Business Ideas File
I keep a file of business ideas. Not to build them, but to understand the patterns beneath them. A way to listen without acting.
Digital Detox Is the New Status Symbol (And You're Probably Addicted Without Knowing It)
Forget green juice. The new flex is switching off. Digital detox is trending and for good reason. Here’s why screen-free is the new self-care.
The 4-Hour Workweek Lied to You
The dream was simple: automate everything, move to Bali, and only work four hours a week. But the reality? It’s messier. Here's what actually happens when you try to escape the system.
Why Nobody Feels Like a Real Adult Anymore
You turn 30, 35, maybe 40 and still feel like you're winging it. No house, no clarity, no confidence. Just group chats and anxiety. Here's why.
The Octopus Isn’t Leaving
You’re not free. But you’re not blind anymore. The Octopus is still here. But so are you.
The Octopus and the Inner War
There’s a version of you that wants to grow. And one that keeps pulling back. This is what happens when both are in charge.
The Octopus and the Lie of Balance
Balance isn’t real. Just a bunch of tentacles pulling in opposite directions while you pretend to be fine.
The Octopus in Charge
What happens when the Octopus isn’t just whispering, but running your whole life?
